Frooler

Good advice for forwarding mail

2008-05-13T03:34:00.000-07:00

HOW TO FORWARD E-MAIL APPROPRIATELY

A friend who is a computer expert received the following directly from a system administrator for a corporate system. It is an excellent message that ABSOLUTELY applies to ALL of us who send e-mails.

Please read the short letter below, even if you're sure you already follow proper procedures.

Please share it with your email buddies!

Do you really know how to forward e-mails? Most of us DO NOT know how.

Do you wonder why you get viruses or junk mail? Do you hate it?

Every time you forward an e-mail, there is information left over from the people who got the message before you -- namely their e-mail addresses & names. As the messages get forwarded along, the list of addresses builds, and builds, and builds, and all it takes is for some poor sap to get a virus, and his or her computer can send that virus to every email address that has come across his computer. Or, someone can take all of those addresses and sell them or send junk mail to them in the hopes that you will go to the site and he will make five cents for each hit. That's right, all of that inconvenience over a nickel!

How do you stop it? Well, there are several easy steps:

(1) When you forward an e-mail, DELETE all of the other addresses that appear in the body of the message (at the top). That's right, DELETE them. Highlight them and delete them, backspace them, cut them, whatever you know how to. It only takes a second. You MUST click the 'Forward' button first and then you will have full editing capabilities against the body and headers of the message. If you don't hit the forward button first you won't have full editing functions . I particularly dislike having to scroll through 200 Email addresses before I get to the email.

(2) Whenever you send an e-mail to more than one person, do NOT use the "To:" or "Cc:" fields for adding e-mail addresses.. Always use the BCC: (blind carbon copy) field for listing the e-mail addresses. This is the way the people you send to will only see their own e-mail address.

If you don't see your "BCC:" option click on where it says To: and your address list will appear. Highlight the address and choose BCC: and that's it, it's that easy. When you send to BCC: your message will automatically say 'Undisclosed Recipients' in the 'TO:' field of the people who receive it.< /SPAN>

That way you aren't sharing all those addresses with every Tom, Dick or Harry.

(3) Remove any 'FW:' in the subject line. You can re-name the subject if you wish or even fix spelling.

This one is very important - please read and heed

(4) ALWAYS hit your Forward button from the actual e-mail you are reading. Ever get those e-mails that you have to open 10 pages to read the one page with the information on it? By Forwarding from the actual page you wish someone to view, you stop them from having to open many e-mails just to see what you sent. These are the ones that often end up having picked up a virus from somebody. This is really important!

(5) Have you ever gotten an email that is a petition? It states a position and asks you to add your name and address and to forward it to 10 or 15 people or your entire address book. The email can be forwarded on and on and can collect thousands of names and email addresses.

A FACT: The completed petition is actually worth a couple of bucks to a professional spammer because of the wealth of valid names and email addresses contained therein. If you want to support the petition, send it as your own personal letter to the intended recipient. Your position may carry more weight as a personal letter than a laundry list of names and email address on a petition. (Actually, if you think about it, who's supposed to send the petition in to whatever cause it supports? And don't believe the ones that say that the email is being traced, it just ain't so!)

(6) One of the main ones I hate is the ones that say that something like, 'Send this email to 10 people and you'll see something great run across your screen.' Or, sometimes they'll just tease you by saying something really cute will happen.

IT AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN!!!!! (Trust me, I'm still seeing some of the same ones that I waited on 10 years ago!) I don't let the bad luck ones scare me either, they get trashed. (Could this be why I haven't won the lottery??)

(7) Before you forward an Amber Alert, or a Virus Alert, or some of the other ones floating around nowadays, check them out before you forward them. Most of them are junk mail that's been circling the net for Years!

Just about everything you receive in an email that is in question can be checked out at Snopes. Just go to http://www.snopes. com/

It's really easy to find out if it's real or not. If it's not, please don't pass it on.

So please, in the future, let's stop the junk mail and the viruses.

Finally, here's an idea!!! Let's send this to everyone we know (but strip my address off first, please!).

This is something that SHOULD be forwarded.

6 Weeks, 6 Months and 6 Years

2008-05-13T03:32:00.003-07:00

Dating process:

6 weeks : I love U, I love U, I love U.
6 months : Of course I love U.
6 years : GOD, if I didn't love U, then why the hell did I propose?

Back from Work:

6 weeks : Honey, I'm home.
6 months : BACK!!
6 years : What did your mom cook for us today??

Gifts:

6 weeks : Honey, I really hope you liked the ring.
6 months : I bought you a painting; it would fit the motif in the living room.
6 years : Here's the money. Buy yourself something.

Phone Ringing:

6 weeks : Baby, somebody wants you on the phone.
6 months : Here, for you.
6 years : PHONE RINGING.

Cooking:

6 weeks : I never knew food could taste so good!
6 months : What are we having for dinner tonight?
6 years : AGAIN!!!!

Apology:

6 weeks : Honey muffin, don't you worry, Ill never hold this against you.
6 months : Watch out! Don't do it again.
6 years : What's not to understand about what I just said??

New Dress:

6 weeks : Oh my God, you look like an angel in that dress.
6 months : You bought a new dress again???
6 years : How much did THAT cost me?

Planning for Vacations:

6 weeks : How do 2 weeks in Vienna or anywhere you please sound??
6 months : What's so bad about going to Istanbul on a charter plane?
6 years : Travel? What's so bad about staying home???

TV:

6 weeks : Baby, what would you like us to watch tonight?
6 months : I like this movie.
6 years : I'm going to watch ESPN, if you're not in the mood, go to bed, I can stay up by myself

if he really loves u

2008-05-13T03:32:00.001-07:00

if he really loves u

1. Know how to make you smile when you are down! .

2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.

3. Stick up for you, but still respects your independence .

4. Give you the remote control during the game .

5. Come up behind you and put his ! arms around you.

6. Play with your hair .

7. His hands always find yours .

8. Be cute when he really wants something.

9. Offer you plenty of massages .

10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork .

11. Never run out of love.

12. Be funny, but know how to be serious .

13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be serious .

14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.

15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.

16. Smile a lot.

17. Plans a romantic date full of cheesy things he wouldn't normally
like to do, just because he knows it means a lot to you.

18. Appreciate you.

19. Help others out.

20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1.

21. Always gives you a peck on the cheek when you depart from each
others company, even when his friends are watching.

22. Sing, even if he can't.

23. Have a creative sense of humor .

24. Stare at you.

25. Call for no reason .

26. Quit smoking , chewing , drinking! , or drugs - just because he
loves u that much to quit it.

100 Simple Ways to Change Your Life for the Better

2008-05-13T03:30:00.002-07:00

No matter how perfect you may think you are, the fact this there’s always some small way you can improve upon yourself. Whether it’s broadening your knowledge or reducing your impact on the earth, there are seemingly endless little things you can do to make a change for the better. Here, we’ll discuss 100 of these steps, and how you can go about doing them.

Health

Good health is the foundation of a good life, so make these improvements, and they’ll resonate out to the rest of your life.

Eat breakfast every morning: Eating breakfast is important for your health and mental power, supplying essential vitamins, minerals, and energy for your day.
Get a good night’s rest: You just can’t have a happy and productive life if you’re tired all of the time, so get some quality shut eye.
Drink water: Step up your water intake to lose weight, feel better, and improve your skin.
Eat slowly: Slow down when you eat, and you’ll find that you consume less while still feeling satisfied.
Cut down on junk food: Junk food has a nasty way of bringing your health down, so avoid it whenever possible, opting instead for healthy food like fresh fruits and vegetables.
Practice good dental hygiene: Researchers have found that dental hygiene is important for more than cosmetic reasons-it can help you chew food and even avoid heart disease.
Drink tea: Be sure to check out the powerhouse of benefits that tea can deliver, which includes improved memory and prevention of ills such as cavities, cancer, and heart disease.
Get some exercise: Whether you need to lose weight or not, exercise will have a positive effect on your overall health and quality of life.
Improve your energy: If you’re feeling sluggish all day, chances are you’re just not going to feel good about yourself. So take a few steps to boost your energy, and you’ll be better in your daily life.
Intensify your workouts: Researchers have found that by doing more intense workouts, you can enjoy similar benefits that you would with a more relaxed workout for a longer period of time.
Enjoy fish a few times a week: Eat fish, and you’ll get a serving of Omega-3 fatty acids, which can help reduce heart disease.
Wear better shoes: Don’t torture your toes with restrictive shoes all the time-limit the amount of time you spend in uncomfortable shoes.
Protect your skin: Stay out of the sun to avoid skin damage, or use sunblock to help.
Eat at home: It’s easier and cheaper to prepare healthy foods on your own at home, and skillfully cooking a meal is sure to impress just about anyone.
Get tested for prediabetes: Diabetes is a disease that many Americans are susceptible to, and by discovering it early on you can prevent it or lessen its impact.
Take a daily walk: Get a little bit of movement and clear your mind with a walk every day.
Lose weight: One of the best things you can do for your health and overall quality of life is to shed a few pounds.

Social

Take these steps to change your social life for the better.

Join a book club: Get some social interaction while improving your knowledge with a book club.
Get out of the house: Believe it or not, the world just isn’t going to come to you. You’ve got to get out of your “zone” for social interaction.
Volunteer: For a rewarding social experience, look into volunteer opportunities.
Ignore minor irritations: Whether it’s some jerk in traffic, or incessant Facebook application requests, some things just aren’t worth dealing with.
Start a blog: Spark an online discussion and network with new people through a blog.
Talk to strangers: Don’t hesitate to spark a conversation with someone you don’t know-you just might enjoy yourself, or even make a new friend.
Don’t stereotype or label people: Avoid dismissing people based on factors you don’t fully understand, and you may find that they have something to offer you.
Call old friends: You’d be surprised how many people would be overjoyed to hear from you, especially if it’s been a while since you’ve seen them.
Go to church: Make new friends and get in touch with your spiritual side at church or temple.
Host a party: Spend some time with good friends and enjoy yourself at home by inviting others over for a party.
Enjoy a hobby: Having a regular, relaxing activity will bring you joy.
Join a club: Whether you’re into board games or photography, there’s a group out there for you.

Emotional

Improve your emotional life with these simple strategies.

Make an effort to be happy: Whether you actually feel happy or not, make it a point to attempt happiness. It will help you feel better, as well as others around you.
Consider religion: If you’re not a spiritual person, consider becoming more involved with religion to improve your emotional well-being.
Stop taking things personally: Although it may seem to the contrary, know that not everyone is out to make your life harder.
Be optimistic: Put a positive spin on things and feel better about the future.
Know when to lose sleep: Sometimes, you have more important things to do than sleep, but they key is knowing when that should happen.
Step out of your comfort zone: Make it a point to step out of your comfort zone once in awhile. It’s a great way to advance yourself.
Get rid of ill-fitting clothing: Clothes that don’t fit right will just make you look bad and feel worse about yourself. If you love a piece, but it just doesn’t look good, consider getting it tailored.
Spend time with a child: Look at the world through a child’s eyes and get inspired. You’ll learn to appreciate simple things and see life with excitement.
Pamper yourself: Take care of yourself, whether that means getting a pint of ice cream now and then, or just getting a spa treatment.
Celebrate your successes: When you’ve accomplished something great, take a moment to feel good about it!
Quit your technology addiction: Although you may love your BlackBerry, you’ll feel a whole lot better if you just step away from the screen for a while.
Set goals: By setting goals, you’ll give yourself something to strive for and look forward to.
Feel good about yourself: Make a decision to improve your self-confidence, and you’ll feel better. Others will notice it, too.
Be thankful: Every now and then, take some time to acknowledge all of the good things you have in your life, big and small.
Cut yourself some slack: Avoid inventing your own impossible, stringent rules that you have to stick to-they’ll only make you feel nervous and guilty.
Let go of the past: Don’t hold grudges-let go, and you’ll free up emotional space.
Don’t be dramatic: Stop inflating small problems, or you’ll make yourself more anxious than you need to be.
Express yourself: Let your emotions come out through art, writing, or other forms of expression.
Meditate: Take some time out every day to have an inner dialogue with yourself.

Financial

Make these changes to improve your life’s financial outlook.

Pay off debt: Nothing will improve your finances better than simply getting rid of debt.
Build an emergency fund: Keep an emergency fund to save yourself from plummeting into the red when something pops up, and you’ll be much more secure.
Track your spending: At some point in their lives, nearly everyone has wondered where all their money goes. Try this exercise to finally get to the bottom of it, and identify spots where your money could be better spent.
Be frugal: Embrace frugality in your life, and you’ll save money while living more simply.
Make extra payments: Pay off mortgage and other large debts early, and you’ll take a load off.
Diversify your income: Provide yourself with some financial security by finding multiple sources of income.
Save: The concept is simple-save money, and you’ll have more financial power to do the things you’d like to do.
Eat at home more often: Eating out all the time may be fun, but preparing meals at home is a better financial strategy.
Invest: Investing is not only fun, it’s an excellent way to make your money grow.
Set a goal: Give yourself a financial goal to achieve, whether it’s saving for a particular item, or doubling your investments.
Save for retirement: Don’t give your future self a huge mess to take care of-save now, and you’ll enjoy it later.

Mental

Improve your mind by taking these simple steps.

Go back to school: Continuing your education does not have to be a complicated endeavor. Take an online class, or just a weekend seminar.
Read classic books: Improve your mind by finally picking up all those books you were supposed to read in school.
Plan: Always have a plan for your life, so you’ll know what you’re working toward.
Quit procrastinating: Resolve to get moving, and you’ll find that you have much more time than you originally realized.
Get inspired by a book: Read a book that will help you spark positive changes in your life.
Learn from your mistakes: Don’t let mistakes get you down. Instead, consider what you did wrong, and how you can avoid doing so again in the future.
Stop worrying: Let go of worry, and know that the future will come no matter what you do about it.
Learn to play a musical instrument: Pick up a guitar, or even a harp, to improve your mental capacity and have something fun to do.
Work to your own advantage: Improve upon what you can, and let the rest fall away.
Think slowly: Instead of jumping to conclusions, carefully calculate what a situation means. Doing so can help you save relationships that might be damaged by rash thinking
Participate in a debate: Have a rational discussion with someone of similar intellect to improve your knowledge.
Learn a new language: Broaden your horizons by learning how to speak a new language.
Visit Wikipedia: Spend some time on Wikipedia learning lots of interesting facts you’ve never realized before.

Habits

Make these changes in your daily life to improve upon yourself.

Quit smoking: It’s the single most important thing you can do for your health, appearance, and energy. You’ll smell better, too.
Wake up early: Be an early riser, and you’ll find that you have more time to get things done.
Spend more time outside: Head outside to become more active and enjoy the world around you.
Be organized: Make things easier on yourself by living a more organized life.

At Work

You spend so much time at work, but probably don’t often consider how you can improve upon this important facet of your life. Take these steps to make things just a little bit better.

Make friends with your coworkers: One of the easiest and most important things you can do to improve your career is to practice inner networking. Socialize with your coworkers, and they’ll be more willing to help you when you need it.
Improve your writing skills: If you improve upon your writing skills, you’ll instantly sound more intelligent and persuasive.
Collaborate: Don’t go it alone-ask for help, and give help in return.
Keep your inbox empty: Reduce anxiety and simplify by clearing out your inbox as much as you can.
Leave work at the door: Don’t bring work home with you, or you’ll stress yourself out at home.
Join a professional association: Network with others in your field for fun and career advancement.
Ask for a raise: Simply asking for a raise you deserve is a no-brainer way to feel better about work and your paycheck.
Improve your resume: If you’re not happy with your job, give your resume a facelift and consider seeking a new position.
Improve your system: If you’ve got a messy desk, or generally lead a disorganized work life, take charge by reorganizing.
Start your own business: One of the best ways to improve your career is to go into business for yourself.

In Your Community

Getting involved in your community is a great way to improve upon your life. Try these methods for getting out there.

Vote: Impact your community’s future by participating in the election of officials.
Donate unused items: Instead of holding a garage sale, pass your old items on to people who need them-like books to schools, and clothing to shelters.
Support charitable endeavors: Whether it’s with money or time, do what you can to help out charities in your community.
Be a coach: Offer to coach a youth sport, and you’ll shape young lives while having fun.
Visit your local library: Take advantage of your community’s library to both save money and broaden your mind.

In the Environment

An excellent way to improve upon yourself is to reduce the negative impact you have on the world. Take these steps to get greener and change your life for the better.

Work to reduce your carbon emissions: Find out about the many things you can do to help cut your carbon emissions, and then take action on them.
Improve your gas mileage: Drive more slowly and coast as much as you can to improve your gas mileage.
Turn off the lights: Cut your waste and energy bill by turning off your lights whenever you don’t need them.
Get a reusable water bottle: Keep plastic water bottles out of our landfills by getting a container you can use over and over again.
Reduce your trash: Take steps to cut down on the waste you put in landfills.
Buy local and organic food: Support your health and local farmer by purchasing local, organic produce.
Adjust your thermostat: Let your heater and AC take a small break by adjusting your thermostat to reduce waste.
Stop using plastic bags: Quit using plastic bags, and you’ll both reduce your impact and save animals.
Take shorter showers: Save a precious resource by reducing the amount of water you use in your daily shower.

17 signs of falling in LOVE

2008-05-13T03:30:00.001-07:00

SEVENTEEN:
U LOOK AT THEIR PROFILE/PICTURE CONSTANTLY

SIXTEEN:
WHEN YOUR ON THE PHONE WITH THEM LATE AT NIGHT AND THEY HANG UP, YOU STILL MISS THEM EVEN WHEN IT WAS JUST TWO MINUTES AGO.

FIFTEEN:
YOU READ THEIR TEXTS or IMS OVER AND OVER AGAIN.

FOURTEEN:
YOU WALK REALLY SLOW WHEN YOU'RE WITH THEM

THIRTEEN:
YOU FEEL SHY WHENEVER YOU'RE/THEY' RE AROUND.

ELEVEN:
WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THEM, YOUR HEART BEATS FASTER AND SLOWER AT THE SAME TIME

TEN:
YOU SMILE WHEN YOU HEAR THEIR VOICE.

NINE:
WHEN YOU lOOK AT THEM, YOU CAN'T SEE THE OTHER PEOPLE AROUND YOU, All YOU SEE IS HIM//HER.

EIGHT:
YOU START LISTENING TO SLOW SONGS, WHILE THINKING OF THEM

SEVEN:
THEY'RE ALL YOU THINK ABOUT.

SIX:
YOU GET HIGH JUST FROM THEIR SCENT.

FIVE:
YOU REALlIZE THAT YOU'RE AlWAYS SMILING TO YOURSELF WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THEM.

FOUR:
YOU WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR THEM, OR ANYTHING TO SEE THEM.

THREE:
WHILE READING THIS, THERE WAS ONE PERSON ON YOUR MIND THE WHOLE TIME...

TWO:
YOU WERE SO BUSY THINKING ABOUT THAT PERSON, YOU DIDN'T NOTICE NUMBER TWELVE.

ONE:
YOU JUST SCROLLED UP TO CHECK & ARE NOW SILENTLY LAUGHING AT YOURSELF.

NOW MAKE A WiSH. YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO.......

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IF YOU DIDN'T NOTICE NUMBER 12, POST THIS AS: "17 signs of falling in LOVE."

This is called a stunt !!!!

2007-12-26T05:16:00.000-08:00

This is called a stunt !!!!

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Wallpaper Love Beginning

2007-11-30T07:33:00.000-08:00

Publish Post

Wallpaper Love Beginning
34 high-quality JPEG | Avarage 3026 x 2269 | 300 dpi | 78,5 MB

Download from Rapidshare

http://rapidshare.com/files/71217019/Wallpaper_Love_Beginning.rar

U & I In This Beautiful WORLD

2007-11-29T00:03:00.001-08:00

U & I

I n T

his B eautiful W ORLD

Who
invented A,B,C,D,E,.. ......... ......... ......... .Z did a
great thing.

But he
kept U and I very very far.

But I
still got a place where U and I are very close.....

in
fact together.... ...

Do you
know where U and I can be together.... .....

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12 signs you LOVE someone.

2007-11-29T00:02:00.000-08:00

TWELVE:

When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.

ELEVEN:

You walk really slow when you're with them.

TEN:

You feel shy whenever they're around.

NINE:

You smile when you hear their voice.

EIGHT:

When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her.

SIX:

They're all you think about.

FIVE:

You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.

FOUR:

You would do anything for them, just to see them.

THREE:

While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.

TWO:

You were so busy thinking about that person, you didn't notice number seven was missing

ONE:

You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself.

What is Life ?

2007-11-28T23:57:00.001-08:00

Life A is ADVENTURE dare it.

Life B is BEAUTY worship it.

Life C is CHALLENGE meet it.

Life D is DREAM realize it.

Life E is ENDURANCE copewith it.

Life F is FRAGRANCE smell it.

Life G is GAME play it.

Life H is HEAVEN take it.

Life I is INITIATIVE take it.

Life J is JOURNEY complete it.

Life K is KEROSINE burn it.

Life L is LOVE enjoy it.

Life M is MYSTERY unfold it.

Life N is NAME find it.

Life O is OPPORTUNITY catch it.

Life P is PROMISE fulfil it.

Life Q is QUSETION answer it.

Life R is REALITY face it.

Life S is SONG sing it.

Life T is TIME utilize it.

Life U is URAGE satisfy it.

Life V is VOICE listen it.

Life Wis WEALTH acquire it.

Life X is X ? solve it.

Life Y is YEARNING go after it.

Life z is ZENITH attain it.

Friendship Is Like...

2007-11-28T23:56:00.000-08:00

Friendship Is Like... NOKIA!

Connecting People!

Friendship Is Like... SAMSUNG

Every One Is Invited!

Friendship Is Like... CELL ONE

Changing Life Style!

Friendship Is Like... PHILIPS

Lets Makes Things Better!

Friendship Is Like... TAPAL

Jaisay Chaho Jeoooo!

Friendship Is Like... SPRITE

Sirf Yeh Bhujaye Pyas Baki All Bakwass!

Friendship Is Like... PEPSI

Ask For More!

Friendship Is Like... LG

Digitally Yours!

Friendship Is Like... NIKE

Just Do It!

Friendship Is Like... HABIB

Kyoun Kay Ye Dil Ka Mamla Hai!

Friendship Is Like... WAVES

Naam Hi Kafi Hai!

Friendship Is Like... BUTTER SCOTCH (hmmm)

Chalti Jayee Chalti Jayee Chali Jayeeeee!

Friendship Is Like... COCA COLA

Enjoyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

2 MY FRIENDS

2007-11-28T23:55:00.001-08:00

Hi.

You might be
best friends one year,

pretty good friends
the next year,

don't talk that often
the next year,

and
don't want to talk at all the year after that.

So, I just wanted to say,

even if I
never talk to you again in my life,

you are special
to me and you have made a difference
in my life,

I
look up to you,
respect you, and
truly cherish you.

Send this to all your friends,

no matter how often you talk
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or
how close you are,

and send it to the person who sent it to you.

Let
old friends
know you haven't forgotten them,

and tell
new friends you never will.

Remember, everyone
needs a friend,

someday you might feel like you have
NO FRIENDS at all,

just remember this text

and take comfort
in knowing

somebody out there
cares about you and always will U

The Beauty Of A Woman

2007-11-28T23:51:00.000-08:00

The Beauty Of A Woman

The beauty of a woman
is not in the clothes she may wear,
Nor the way she combs her hair.
The lovely figure that she carries,
Or any innocence before she marries

The beauty of a woman
Is seen in the depth of her eyes
The place where her love resides.
Where the doorway to her heart is seen
If you re invited in by some lovely colleen

The beauty of a woman
Is where virtue and passion convene
Not in any place she may have been
And not things superficial as a facial mole,
Her true beauty is reflected in her soul.

The beauty of a woman
Is the care and comfort offered to others
And their amazing skill at being mothers
The unselfish loving and giving she shows
Her beauty with passing years, only grows

She is Women She is life........ ......

Tips to make your love alive

2007-11-15T00:12:00.001-08:00

Everybody wants to tell their partner that how much they love them. Even if you don?t tell you should do the same. Now you would want to know what you could do to keep your relationship stronger and fresh and full of life!

Here are some ideas which could be beneficial in keeping your relationship fresh throughout the twelve months. The basic idea involved is to be 'romantic?:

1.A cute greeting card: You must have felt on many occasions how important the greeting cards are. Without any special occasion, you could give you partner a card with the theme 'I love you?.

2.Leave hand-written notes for your sweetheart : If you don?t fancy giving the card directly in hand, you could write 'I Love You? on a paper, on a dry leaf (if you know bit of art), on an envelope with some tiny gift inside (Like a pen, a key chain) and hide it in his/her drawer or his/her wallet. It would be a real fun for him/her to find these notes? Try It! These will make him/her feel special.

3. Magic of touch heal : It is said that 'Human touch is a great healer?. Now, whenever you get a chance and as often you can remember touch his/her knee, shoulder, hand or back with you hand.

4. A beautiful Massage for your sweetheart : You could give foot rubs (You could use some essential oils); shoulder rubs to each other which will give relaxation to his/her body.

5. Hold the face to make him/her feel extra special : You could hold his/her face in your hands; this is also a loving human touch. It might connect you back to the good old, your first days.

6. Arrange a surprise picnic : You arrange a day out to a park with her/him. This could be more loving if it is a surprise picnic. It would show that you are willing to go an extra mile to keep your relationship alive.

7. Share Some Activities to give comfort : Try out things which are not done in the normal routine likewise you could share some of his/her activities while giving a level of 'comfort? to your partner. You could help out in cooking, in hanging out the clothes, looking after the baby while she could have a nap, help cleaning his/her vehicle etc.

8.Sing a romantic song to show how much you love him/her : You could sing a song he/she loves. You don?t have to be a good singer for this. The main thing you try achieving here is to give a 'comfort Zone? to the person.

9. Cooking : If most of the time she is cooking for you, how about getting up little early and makes a nice meal/breakfast and have it together, in the bed or at the table. It could be a surprise meal.

10. Surprise : Without any occasion, you could surprise him/her by giving a beautiful flower of his/her choice.
Hopefully you will try these tips, and be happy to be successful. Make your relationship alive and loving. That is life!

50 Loving Notes

2007-11-15T00:07:00.000-08:00

50 Loving Notes

H E L L O

2007-10-09T04:11:00.000-07:00

H E L L O

Today is no special day and I have no particular reason for writing to you...

I have no news to tell you....

nor any problems to discuss with you....

Or gossip to tell you....

It's only one of those happy moments...

when I thought of you...

and I would like to share these thoughts with you...

MANY SMILES BEGIN BECAUSE OF ANOTHER SMILE...

Always have good self esteem...

Take care of your friends, especially those dearest to you...

Take care of your body...

But most of all find time to relax...

A Big Hug from your friend...

Pass this on to all of your FRIENDS.. And if you receive this e-mail many times from many different people, it only means that you have many FRIENDS. And if you only get it but once, do not be discouraged for you will know that you have

AT LEAST ONE GOOD FRIEND - ME.

VICKY - FROOLER

2007-09-20T03:03:00.000-07:00

F A M I L Y

I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.
He said, "Please excuse me too; I wasn't watching for you."
We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said good-bye.
But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.
Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.
When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.
He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.
While I lay awake in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,
"While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse.
Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.
Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.
He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."
By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall.
I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
"Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.
"Are these the flowers you picked for me?
" He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.
I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."
I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way.
" He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway."
I said, "Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."
FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow,
the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.
And come to think of it,
we pour ourselves more into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?
So what is behind the story?

Do you know what the word FAMILY means? FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

Characteristics of guys and gurls signs

2007-08-08T05:42:00.000-07:00

Friendship Day SMS

2007-08-01T00:20:00.000-07:00

Find your Personality:

2007-06-14T04:55:00.000-07:00

Tomorrow is Not Promised

2007-06-11T03:04:00.000-07:00

Tomorrow is Not Promised

Sometimes people come into your life
and you know right away that they were meant to be there,
they serve some sort of purpose,
teach you a lesson
or help figure out who you are
and who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be:
your neighbour, child, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger
who, when you lock eyes with them,
you know at that very moment that they will affect your life
in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you
and at the time they seem painful and unfair,
but in reflection you realise
that without overcoming those obstacles
you would have never realised
your potential strength, will power, or heart .

Everything happens for a reason.
Nothing happens by chance
or by means of good or bad luck.
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity,
all occur to test the limits of your soul.

Without these small tests,
whether they be events, illnesses, or relationships,
life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere,
safe and comfortable,
but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life
and the successes and downfalls you experience
create who you are,
and even the bad experiences can be learned from;
In fact, they are probably the poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks your heart,
forgive them,
for they have helped you learn about trust
and the importance of being cautious
to whom you open your heart...

If someone loves you,
love them back unconditionally,
not only because they love you,
but because they are teaching you to love
and opening your heart and eyes to things
you would have never seen or felt without them .

Make every day count.
Appreciate every moment
and take from it everything that you possibly can,
for you may never be able to experience it again...

Talk to people you have never talked to before,
and actually listen,
let yourself fall in love,
break free and set your sights high...

Hold your head up
because you have every right to.
Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself...
for if you don't believe in yourself,
no one else will believe in you either.
You can make of your life anything you wish

Create your own life
and then go out and live it!
"Live Each Day As If It Were Your Last...
Tomorrow is Not Promised"

You cannot do kindness too soon
because you never know how soon it will be too late...

A Friend Most True

2007-06-11T01:39:00.000-07:00

A Friend Most True

I need to know if you’re my true friend,
will you be by my side until the end?
Can I tell you my secrets deep,
and trust them in your heart you’ll keep?
We are neither of us without our flaws,
can you accept mine as I will yours?
I’ll be a shoulder to cry on when you’re blue,
will you be there for me when I need you?
No matter how busy I will make time for you,
if you are busy will you make time for me too?
I will take your hand and comfort your tears,
will you hold me and soothe my fears?
I will give you joy and many warm smiles,
can we share that even across many miles?
I will not forget what’s important to you,
will you remember what’s important to me too?
With you my most favourite things I’ll share,
If only I know do you truly care?
If you can accept me as I do you,
then I will know you are a friend most true.

A FRIEND LIKE YOU

2007-06-11T01:34:00.000-07:00

A FRIEND LIKE YOU
© Vicky

Everyone should have
a friend like you
You are so much fun to be with
And you are such a good person
You crack me up with laughter
And touch my heart with your kindness
You have a wonderful ability
To know when to offer advice
And when to sit in quiet support
Time after time
You've come to my rescue
And brightend so many
Of my routine days
And time after time
I've realized how fortunate
I am that my life includes you
I really do believe that
Everybody should have a friend like you
But so far it looks like
You are one of a kind!

For My Best Friend

2007-06-11T01:30:00.000-07:00

For My Best Friend
© Vicky

This is for you, my best friend,
the one person i can tell my soul too
Who can relate to me like no other
Who I can laugh with to no extents,
Who I can cry too when times are tough,
Who can help me with the problems of my life.

Never have you turned your back on me
Or told me I wasnt good enough
Or let me down

I don't think you know what that means to me
You have went through so much pain and you still have time
For me.
And I love you for listening even when inside YOU are dying
And I look up too you because you are strong,
and caring
and beautiful.
Even though you don't think you are.

And I hope you know that I am always here
To listen to you laugh and cry and help
In all the ways that i can
And I will try to be at least half the friend you are
To me.

I hope you know I would not be the person I am today, with out you.
My best friend.

Friendship sayings - Inspiring quotes about friends

2007-06-10T04:32:00.000-07:00

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.

A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens but oftentimes we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours.

There are things you'd love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from, but don't be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart.

Never say good-bye if you still want to try never give up if you still feel you can go on , never say you don't love a person anymore if you can't let go.

Love comes to those who still hope although they've been disappointed to those who still believe, although they've been betrayed, to those who still need to love, although they've been hurt before, and to those who have the courage and faith to build trust again.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Hope you find the one that makes you smile. :)

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! Hope you dream of that special someone.

Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go be what you want to be , because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong,
enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy and enough money to buy me gifts.

Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

A careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.

The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, and not twist them with our own image - otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

HOW TO BECOME AN IDEAL FRIEND

2007-06-09T00:08:00.000-07:00

Its not easy becoming a friend or making one because a friend is not a state of mind. Its real and its in your face. A friend is someone who makes your life worth its while a little more than yesterday. While everybody has their own definitions of a "friend", the long and short of it is we all need friends to make our lives better. We at TheHolidaySpot value our friendship as much as you do and would like to share our ideas of how to become an ideal friend with you, for if wasn't for you we wouldn't be where we are today.

HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY...

In friendship "honesty" is the key word. One should always be honest to his or her friends.
Don't overlook their faults, even if you have none for you are his friend!
Praise them honestly and openly.
Say you're sorry, when you hurt your friend. Don't let them assume it.

GIVE MORE THAN YOU TAKE...

Be there when they need you or you may wind up alone.
Love them unconditionally, that is the only condition. Make them feel special, because aren't we all special?
Never forget them, who wants to feel forgotten.

BE SUPPORTIVE...

Cheer them on, we all need encouragement now and then.
Encourage their dreams and aspiration, Life seems almost meaningless without them.
Your words count, use them wisely.
Use good judgement.
Wish them luck, hopefully good
Eamine your motives before you "help" out
Just be there when they need you
Really listen, a friendly ear is a soothing balm

FORGIVENESS...

Forgive them for, "To Err is Human", and you just may end up making the same mistakes in course of time..

KEEP THE FAITH...

Have faith in them. For, there is no love without trust.
Zip your lips when they confide in you

EXPRESS YOURSELF CLEARLY

Know when they need a hug, and couldn't you use one?
Offer to help, and know when " No thanks" is just politeness
Quietly disagree, noisy No's make enemies
Verbalsise your feelings

HAVE FUN...

Get together often, misery loves company, so does glee.
Talk frequently, communication is important.

Enjoying your friendship is the order of the day. So its not what we call a friendship if you don't feel right.
Always remember a friendship is worth it when you are able to enjoy the amazing relationship with no holds barred. Its a mutual bond for life that you cant give up.

My Bestfriend

2007-06-07T05:50:00.000-07:00

Our friendship is an ocean, stretching
Far and wide
Never ending-
Filled with memories-
That last a lifetime

You've always known
Just what to say

You were always there,
When I needed you the most

When I needed-
A shoulder to cry on
Yours was always waiting

When I needed-
Someone to talk to
You were there
Just listening

When I needed-
Someone to hug
Your arms were
Doors wide open to me

Our friendship's
Just like the
Stars-
Both go beyond
Man's reach

All of the giggles we shared

Let the salty taste of tears
Run down our cheeks

All the Laughs,
The smiles,
The hugs,
The inside jokes,
The hours online,
And
The eighty minute phone calls

Just because

You were the family that
God forgot to give me.

Best Friends

2007-06-07T05:45:00.000-07:00

I have a friend

2007-06-07T02:26:00.000-07:00

I have a friend

Who is perfect for me
She listens to all my problems
No matter how dumb they may be

She likes herself for who she is
And never tries to change
She tells me to be myself
And that I should never change

She was shy on the phone
But she would still call
And we would talk for hours
About nothing at all

We would talk about love and life
And discuss what we wanted to be
She knew just how I felt
And how happy I could be

She listens to me patiently
But never judges what I do or say
She helped with all my problems
And never went away

I never once felt judged by her
How much that meant to me
That I could tell her all my dreams
And she would listen to me

My friend never goes and tells
What is dear to me
She keeps it all bottled up inside
And doesn't spread it like a bee

I am thankful for that friend of mine
Our friendship will never end
And she will always be there
For she is my best friend.

HOW A SON/DAUGHTER THINKS OF HIS/HER DAD AT DIFFERENT AGES:

2007-06-07T02:06:00.000-07:00

HOW A SON/DAUGHTER THINKS OF HIS/HER DAD AT DIFFERENT AGES:

At 4 Years
My daddy is great.
At 6 Years
My daddy knows everybody.
At 10 Years
My daddy is good but is short tempered
At 12 Years
My daddy was very nice to me when I was young.
At 14 Years
My daddy is getting fastidious.
At 16 Years
My daddy is not in line with the current times.
At 18 Years
My daddy is becoming increasingly cranky.
At 20 Years
Oh! Its becoming difficult to tolerate daddy. Wonder how Mother puts
up with him.
At 25 Years
Daddy is objecting to everything.
At 30 Years
It's becoming difficult to manage my son. I was so scared of my father
when I was young.
At 40 Years
Daddy brought me up with so much discipline. Even I should do the same.
At 45 Years
I am baffled as to how my daddy brought us up. At 50 Years
My daddy faced so many hardships to bring us up. I am unable to manage
a single son. At 55 Years
My daddy was so far sighted and planned so many things for us. He is
one of his kind and unique. At 60 Years
My daddy is great.
Thus, it took 56 years to complete the cycle and come back to the 1st stage.
Realise the true value of your parents before its too late.

Enviroment calendar

2007-06-05T01:58:00.000-07:00

Enviroment calendar

Anti-Tobacco Day | Environment Day | Population Day | Ozone Day |

Green Consumer Day | Habitat Day | Wildlife Week | Animal Welfare Day |

International Day for Natural Disaster Reduction | Children’s Day in India |

Bhopal Tragedy Day

On these days you can organise a special item for the morning assembly in school or hold an exibition or a competition. You can present any of the following items listed below
Read a poem or a quotation or both at the beginning of the assembly. Enact a play highlighting the issue. Organise a quiz. Hold a discussion on the specific issue. Organize a debate on the particular issue. Ask your art teacher to hold a painting competition. Organise a Poster competition.	Have tree plantation programmes. Take up a ‘clean your neighbourhood drive’. Organise a ‘just a minute’ competition. Have a photograph competition. Give a talk on the subject. Arrange a wall display highlighting the occasion. Hold a classroom board contest on the specific topic.

February 2 World Wetland Day - On this day, in 1971, the Ramsar Convention on Wetlands of International Importance was signed. Wetlands are a very important part of our biodiversity and it is essential to see that they are well protected.

February 28 National Science Day - It is necessary to highlight the role of science in the protection of the environment. This day should be taken as a platform to put forward the message.

March 21 World Forestry Day - Activities such as the planting of trees and highlighting the urgency to increase the green cover.

March 22 World Water Day - The decision to celebrate this day has been taken recently as drinking water sources are fast depleting. The world must wake up to the problem and begin conserving it.

March 23 World Meteorological Day – Everyone has to be reminded that weather is an integral part of the environment.

April 7 World Health Day – The World Health Organisation (WHO) was constituted on this day in 1948. In the changing environment around us health is becoming an important issue.

April 18 World Heritage Day - Environment includes not just the natural surroundings but also the manmade ones.

April 22 Earth Day - In 1970 a group of people in the United States of America got together to draw the attention of the world to the problems being caused to the earth due to modernisation. Since then this day has been celebrated all over the world as Earth Day.

May 31 Anti Tobacco Day - The world is now aware of the problems faced by not only the smokers but also the people who inhale the smoke. You can take up an anti smoking campaign in your family or the neighbourhood.

June 5 World Environment Day - On this day, in 1972, the Stockholm Conference on Human Environment was held in Sweden. There was a large gathering from all over the world and people expressed their concerns for the increasing environmental problems.

July 11 World Population Day- Population has to be given special attention, as it is an ever-increasing problem especially in India.

September 16 World Ozone Day-The United Nations declared this day as the International Day for the Preservation of the Ozone Layer. It is the day the Montreal Protocol was signed.

September 28 Green Consumer Day-The problems of consumerism and its impact on the environment is an area of major concern in today’s world. Awareness building on the importance of recycling-reusing-reducing should be taken up seriously.

October 3 World Habitat Day-The earth is the habitat of not only human beings but also all living creatures. Increasing human activities is threatening the habitat of other living things.

October 1-7 World Wildlife Week -Celebrate this week by building awareness on the importance of preservation of our wildlife.

October 4 World Animal Welfare Day-The welfare of animals has to be looked into and given due importance.

October 13 International Day for Natural Disaster Reduction-Due to a change in the environment there has been an increase in the number of natural disasters. Efforts have to be taken to reduce these disasters.

November 14 Children’s Day in India- Children can work together for a better tomorrow by improving the environment around them.

December 2 Bhopal Tragedy Day- Mark this occasion by taking a pledge to put in your best efforts to prevent such a tragedy from occurring again.